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]]>When you expose a defenceless side of you, many will begin to expect more from you or try to take more than what you are willing to give.
As a result you begin to compromise your well-being.
SIGNS THAT YOU ARE LACKING BOUNDARIES FOR YOURSELF
When you don’t set boundaries, many times you begin to exhibit avoidance behaviours:
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO SET BOUNDARIES
In short, it’s good for your subjective well-being. By setting boundaries, you’re sending out a strong message about how you value and honour yourself. You are protecting your energy from leaking and keeping yourself from feeling drained.
When you don’t set boundaries or set loose ones, you become an open ground for every type of situation and people to come onto ‘your land’ and violate your space. Having boundaries will help attract more of what you’re aligned with and restrict that of which appears toxic to you.
Think of it this way: the boundaries that you set for yourself will give you the necessary conditions to grow and to flourish by keeping out ‘foreign invaders’ that may contribute towards stunning your growth.
TYPES OF BOUNDARIES
It’s important to set these five types of boundaries: emotional, physical, cognitive and time.
HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES
Setting boundaries isn’t as challenging as it may appear to be as long as you are clear on how you always want to feel in each moment. Follow these four simple steps to set effective and self defining boundaries for yourself:
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]]>B.F. SKINNER AND OPERANT LEARNING Skinner was an American behavioural psychologist. He was interested in learning more about how the consequences of people’s actions influenced their behaviours. This later became known as operant conditioning – a type of learning where rewards and punishments are used to acknowledge certain behaviours. Skinner invented the ‘Skinner box,’ an enclosed apparatus with a key or a lever that an animal could press to obtain food or some type of reinforcement. There was also a device that recorded each response provided by the animal. Over time the animal (a pigeon in this case) learned that by pulling the lever, they would be rewarded with food. Later, Skinner incorporated green and red lights into his experiment. When the lever was pulled as the green light flashed the animal would be rewarded with food. When the lever was pulled when the red light flashed, the animal was punished with an electrical shock. Over time the animal learned to avoid pressing the lever when the light was red. Through this experiment, Skinner learned that specific consequences are associated with voluntary behaviours in natural settings. This meant that rewards increased a behaviour and punishments decreased a behaviour.
REINFORCEMENT SCHEDULES
Skinner went on to discover that the timing and frequency of reinforcements influenced how new behaviours were learned and old behaviours were modified. There are four schedules of partial reinforcements that impact the operant conditioning process.
UNDERSTANDING THE REWARD CENTER OF YOUR BRAIN
There are ‘reward circuits’ at the top of your brain stem called the ventral tegmental area (VTA) comprising of the amygdala and the nucleus accumbens it’s where dopamine (a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and rewards) communicates with dopamine producing neurons. The dopamine is later transported to areas of your brain through two dopamine pathways: mesolimbic and mesocortical. In the 1950’s it was recognized that dopamine neurons are activated in your brain when it is exposed to pleasure and rewards. This is why certain actions such as: eating certain types of foods, ingesting certain drugs, sex and gambling give you a ‘feel good’ experience.
WHY SOCIAL MEDIA IS DESIGNED THE WAY IT IS
Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, Twitter all may be used for different purposes, but they are designed with four things in mind: trigger, action, attention and investment.
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